"They're going to do it anyway"
As a prosecutor trying to protect children from predators and abusers, "they're going to do it anyway" is the favorite excuse of lazy, irresponsible or stupid parents who need to justify their own failure to protect their children by setting and enforcing rules and boundaries.
Children always push the boundaries set by their parents.
If you don't want your children to do worse things than you did, you have to set the boundaries where your parents set them for you.
